losing and being found
In conversing and especially meeting there is a feeling of losing yourself and being found, simultaneously.
:- Doug.
In conversing and especially meeting there is a feeling of losing yourself and being found, simultaneously.
:- Doug.
What if, in your conversation, you started yelling at me, throwing your hot chocolate in my face? That’s a break of structure too far, yes?
:- Doug.
In conversation we lose among other things social status. We are, or often intend to be, equals. This is crossing the liminal.
:- Doug.
Turner holds every experience has both a rational and an emotional element. Since a conversation is an experience, every conversation has an emotional element. We must process this, at least take it in. Also each has elements sacred, profane, oceanic.
:- Doug.
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Conversation helps us understand: the other; ourselves; us together. It circles and eddies.
:- Doug.
See how I can get myself stuck, if I can’t converse with you?
:- Doug.
Examine/Examen what we do well in conversing and meeting—and what we want to do well. Where do we already flow?
:- Doug.
How can conversation and meeting be more enjoyed—have more flow?
:- Doug.
Flow in conversation is less a little dimpled ball made to go into a small cup, and more a spring, a fount.
:- Doug.
I need a sub-text, a current flowing in an opposing direction, in a hundred directions. I must put my quandaries on the paper, let them complicate!
:- Doug.
It is not about the reward—that’s looking through the telescope backwards. It is about where we have been and what we can bring back from there: something akin to Campbell’s boon for the community.
:- Doug.