Helping to understand
In conversation we are helping one another to understand. Meeting then leans hard into understanding.
:- Doug.
In conversation we are helping one another to understand. Meeting then leans hard into understanding.
:- Doug.
It is not a reaching
But a reaching for
:- Doug.
Understanding is of the brain, embraced by more, some Quality Without a Name.
:- Doug.
How can understanding
Be at once adding layers
And removing?
Traveling to new lands
Is losing others, bringing along
:- Doug.
Requires a decision
Requires acceptance
Inter-standing
:- Doug.
Understanding is receiving
More of the world
More person
More history
More borders breached
:- Doug.
Understanding is the bath
That rolls over one
Insight is diving
Looking for the pearl
Neither suffering nor grasping
A choice—to accept
Growing by receiving
:- Doug.
Accept the encompassing
Life offers you
:- Doug.
We can have a rich
Inter life
:- Doug.
The Last Hot Chocolate seems to be seeking for understanding of and insight into conversation. It can tell us how to converse, but not what to do once we reach its precincts.
:- Doug.
Is insight ~ understanding?
:- Doug.
One acts always in character, acting with care or with impetuosity, say, or even draws up a plan—in writing!—and so comes to a tragic interlude—life goes on so there had not yet been a final scene—because that one is rendered incapable of response to what shows up.
:- Doug.
As an onion
As a pearl
Adds layers
We gather in years
Sufferings, actions
Watching results
So we grow
Not in learning
Rather softly
In understanding
In stocking’d feet
:- Doug.
Footprints in the Windsm # 2376
We don’t get to meeting often with our family members, especially those with whom we spend most of our evenings. This is because we do not have with them, in Dewey’s term (from his Art as Experience), experiences—something that “runs its course to fulfillment” (p 35)—with these persons. Instead, “we drift. . . . One thing replaces another, but does not absorb it and carry it on. . . . [These times] are anesthetic.” (p 40) There is no clear resolution nor delineation. There are no edges like in conversation or meeting. What we lack is a date night, a light over an isolated table and event. We lack pattern and structure. We lack appreciating, receiving, and enjoying. We lack noticing.
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A shared understanding does not require nor force an identical understanding. Perhaps it is a starting point, and we can rattle around in the circling acre.
:- Doug.
What does it mean
How does it happen
I could see it in her eyes
I could hear it in his voice?
Can we get there?
:- Doug.
For me, the lesson of these last two weeks seems the gate to flow in writing is not to let the day get in the way of the day.
:- Doug.
If as John S. Dunne writes in The Peace of the Present (p 23), there is a music of peace and a music of war, can there be also a music of conversation?
:- Doug.
In communitas we meet the incomprehensible lovable.
:- Doug.
Conversation is our vanish point.
:- Doug.
What can we find in conversation?
Ourselves
Our between!
:- Doug.
This threshold I traverse—from me to you and back—between, O!
:- Doug.
In conversation—gallery that it is—is it inside or outdoors?
:- Doug.