We need opposition
Sometimes to stretch, we need opposition.
:- Doug.

In eldering we take a clean quiet rest
a time apart
beyond even larger pictures
recharging, retreating, fasting
beyond even
:- Doug.
We are each ever demonstrating our ignorance—let’s hope with little arrogance.
:- Doug.
Risk and responsibility
eldering entails
for those you came to serve
:- Doug.
Completing our task—rounding out our lives—rounding out life—in the world: these elders are about.
:- Doug.
First, there is no first. It can happen in any order. Or all at once. Start with what’s to hand.
:- Doug.
Ever had a night your mind would not stop? Your memory can keep you up half the night. Losing memory can be a good thing.
:- Doug.
She may not understand your words, but see if she understands hugs. Try sounds: coo with her. Long ago touches.
:- Doug.