The trout does miss the fly
One is not elder once and done: usually one goes back and forth; sometimes eldering misses you: the trout does miss the fly.
:- Doug.

One is not elder once and done: usually one goes back and forth; sometimes eldering misses you: the trout does miss the fly.
:- Doug.
Eldering starts as dying leaning into being, and continues to passing beyond being. Beyond this we do not see.
:- Doug.
Wonder if there is a third stage of eldering before the other two: 1. active, reflective, beyond adult, focused on humanity, nurturing, wholeness; 2. caring for the soul of the world; 3. grace, presence, cosmos-spirit, wonder.
:- Doug.
We glimpse that what people see is as much in their head-hearts as out there.
:- Doug.