Hearing is what you do after
Hearing is what to do after
You listen
If you want to be human
:- Doug.

Hearing is what to do after
You listen
If you want to be human
:- Doug.
Brides, Babies, and Bills
Take the wild out
Of the young man
Serve
Us
:- Doug.
You only cook special things
for other people
I make you things each day
and give up some things I love
Ahh yes, the everyday!
:- Doug.
Since the world has all this
Billions of us, the stars,
The seething teeming
Black holes and dark energy
Moving it is born anew each instant
:- Doug.
I could be convinced
Otherwise
High speed car chases
Demonstrate lack of imagination
Are costly, dangerous, life-threatening
But they’re getting away!
In our times where is away?
:- Doug.
This chapter can reframe
All the rest
Die a death fitting for your living
This is the Work
Here your spirit shows through
Now you teach now you learn
Up you might go as you away
This can be your finest chapter
Instead of a receding period
In other contexts called
Redemption, transformation
:- Doug.
How long do you want to die? Should your final illness and suffering last 3 hours, 3 days, 3 months? What if your level of pain were 3, 7, or 10? How long if the level of suffering for your family were 3, 7, 0r 10? You might plot these on a graph.
:- Doug.
When it comes to end of life caring for one another, let us preempt the culture.
:- Doug.
Every time you and your wife interact, you are a different you, she a different she-she and you a different he-he.
:- Doug.
Will I be relevant to me?
A year or two from now?
A step or two down my road?
:- Doug.
Is asking What would Dad want a way of making our decision easier? Yes, and that is not bad. But sometimes we need to think harder and more deeply for ourselves—and them. What is a good child to do?
:- Doug.
My family will do the right thing. But how will they know? Unless I tell them?
:- Doug.
How could a living creator do a one time and done act—and stop creating? Could an eternal creator stop?
:- Doug.
Do infinity and eternity actually mean immeasurable, at least by humans, humans who wish to measure all? How could we measure places without place, times without time? Do we think that if we have no word for something it does not exist?
:- Doug.