Can we ever stand outside our thinking and see what it is doing?
Can we ever stand outside our thinking and see what it is doing?
:- Doug.

Can we ever stand outside our thinking and see what it is doing?
:- Doug.
We can always be more happy, and that means more whole. And more sad, and more grieved, and more involved with one another. All this too means more whole.
:- Doug.
If people are seeking closing and completing, rounding of their togethering, then their relatings need to heal. This is the purpose of forgiving and thanking and blessing and loving: to make whole. This comes about through radical conversing: saying what is at the root of us. Forgiving and thanking et al. are tools for digging to the roots. Digging can be done an inch deep or root deep.
:- Doug.
Conversing is a sword’s edge, Excalibur. It cuts deeply, to heal.
:- Doug.
We cannot radically converse all the time: it would be too much for us. But in each life we ought to meet this way once.
:- Doug.