Pulling and pushing are both necessary.
We have a need in this universe to both love and hate, both attract and repel. What we don’t need is the war between them and the extra heat of feeling bad about the conflict. Conflict is necessary. Pulling and pushing are both necessary. Something that will not budge is necessary—maybe to grow our muscles, maybe to keep our muscles in tune, maybe to give us impetus to try harder or to decide when enough is enough and go on to something more important. Maybe a hundred other reasons. How do we know till we get to the other side? And maybe even then we still will not yet know.
:- Doug.